FULL MOON IN ARIES LUNAR ECLIPSE 10.8.14

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This is a beautifully, powerful introspective few days for us. And it can literally make us feel full—full of love, fear, and doubt, or whatever has been residing within our subconscious and consciousness since the last full moon. It is a sacred time to get still, quiet, pensive about our shadow, which often times appears in others and that to which we have a reaction to. Observe your observations of others.

This planetary time is about relationships, relationships, relationships. First and foremost to ourselves and then the painful and empowering sorting of those toxic ones we need to cut loose. Meditate on who, why and what you need to release from your life. Many people are fearful of this but I know since I was a young girl it’s been the empowerment to my warrioress self—to first, define our boundaries, then if needed asking politely if they have been trespassed and then abandoned if all courses of action have been exhausted, leaving you exhausted wishing, aching for peace. Authentic peace sometimes must arise from leaving a relationship, a friendship, not embarking on the insanity wheel of doing the same things in different ways and expecting something to change. When someone shows you who they are, believe them.

As I’ve grown older if I have to even have a conversation with someone explaining something that should be an innate match to my moral compass, for example why stealing from my home is outrageous or various forms of disloyalty, I know the relationship isn’t for me. It’s not giving up, it’s called experience, discernment and wisdom. I don’t know about you but time becomes ever more precious with age and as a mother of two. I just don’t have the same leniency or desire to pursue relationships if they’re too much work, not out of laziness but because I know the effortless ones I have and those are the ones I seek to nurture. I seek rather to create my art and spend time in nature. It’s always been quality not quantity for me, even as the social butterfly Aquarian I am with beautiful friends sprinkled all over the world.

Take this time to not only delve into those relationships that deplete you, but ask yourself why do you endure the connection if it is so uninspiring, so tiresome? You will be enlightened with your answers but it will take great courage to find the truthful answer. This lunar eclipse antagonizes the shadow, pushes you to the door but you have to open it.

Be a warrior, warrioress. Take these hours of the lunar energy and find whatever road to peace works for you, not avoidance, not ignoring, but true uninhibited peace. You will set yourself and others free. Hold on for love, not fear, live true to your needs, asking for what you desire. Reciprocity, respect and revelations are wonderful attributes for creating or continuing any relationship, set the rest free. Begin. Again. Let. Go.